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Posts by Tim Ashford
By Tim Ashford
I recently listened to a biographical sketch on John Bunyan. I’m was reading The Pilgrim’s Progress, so it was fitting to hear about the life of the man who wrote it. The Pilgrim’s Progress is not all that Bunyan wrote, though. I learned from the bio that he wrote a lot of things. Many of his writings were penned during times of severe trial and persecution. During the message I was listening to, a quote from another of Bunyan’s works stuck out to me. It continues to affect me as I think about it. He wrote on the cost of Christian discipleship:
“Following of me [Christ] is not like following of some other masters. The wind sits always on my face and the foaming rage of the sea of this world, and the proud and lofty waves thereof do continually beat upon the sides of the bark or ship that myself, my cause, and my followers are in; he therefore that will not run hazards, and that is afraid to venture a drowning, let him not set foot into this vessel.”
In America, living for Christ is often times less than life threatening. Bunyan’s life and testimony, though, is a glass of cold water splashed on my face in the land of ease. He reminds me that those who follow Christ must lean hard on Him for the grace to be courageous. The Master I follow is a stench in the nostrils of a world that functions on principles and practices that evoke His wrath. Following Him will inevitably bring ridicule from those who oppose Him. As a disciple of Christ I am not called to complacency but to courageously stand up and be counted for Him.
At the outset this idea may appeal to us as men. There’s something about standing up for what you believe that inspires us. It’s honorable. Brave. Loyal. But if the truth be told I think we all have our fair share of Peter Moments - “I do not know the man” (Matthew 26:74). When’s the last time you thought better speaking up about Christ because the people around didn’t seem to be open to it? Personally, I don’t have to think long.
Bunyan’s description of discipleship reminds me that cowardliness is sin for the disciple. Those who are ashamed of Him have no part with Him (Matthew 8:38). But what grace is available for those humbly trust Him for courage. Thankfully Matthew’s account of Peter’s denial is not the last we hear of Peter. Filled with the Holy Spirit in the book of Acts, Peter boldly testifies of Christ to his fellow Jews (Acts 2:14 – 36).
I can’t avoid feeling the wind on my face nor can I fear it when it blows. It’s simply part of following Christ in a world that opposes Him. I may not be called upon to suffer like Bunyan or to preach to the masses like Peter, but this I pray: God give me grace to courageously live for Christ. Not man-centered, prideful, worldly courage but Spirit-filled, Christ-centered, God-glorifying courage. I need it to be a true disciple.
“Phelps Becomes Most Successful Olympian Ever.” “Phelps Makes Biggest Splash at Games.” Are you tired of all the headlines about Michael Phelps? Just before his fourth gold medal race August 13th, one of his buddies sent him a text message that razzed, “Dude, it’s ridiculous how many times a day I have to see your ugly face.” The friend went on, “It’s time to be the best ever.” Phelps is doing his best ever at the Olympics. Meanwhile back on earth, we’re determined in our family to make this the best ever Olympics as well. We have next to no athletic talent, and most of us know very little about sports, but that hasn’t stopped us from grabbing gold. Here’s how.
A few different times, we’ve started our family devotions around the computer. At nbcolympics.com you can easily find video recaps of all the major events. The event doesn’t matter so much; we’ve been using the swimming events which are short and exciting. The real value is when we apply what we learned. The take home points seem to come in two categories: One, how is our Christian life like being a top athlete? And two, how are we different? In either case, we’ve been starting out with I Corinthians 9:24 – 27. In this passage, Paul both compares and contrasts.
Here are some ways we’ve realized Christians are similar to Olympic athletes:
- Like Michael Phelps and other Olympic athletes, we are striving for a prize. As my daughter said in prayer this morning, ours is the prize of eternal life with God.
- Like an athlete, we need to orient our lives toward our goal. An Olympian asks himself, “Will this activity help me win, or hurt me?” And we ask ourselves, does this choice of something to do with my time help me get stronger in God?
- Like top athletes, we are not aimless. We laughed when we thought of what it would be like if Michael Phelps went exploring the bottom of the pool while everyone else swam to the finish line. We will stumble, but through grace in Christ, we are always trying to head forward in the upward call of God in Christ.
- Like a top competitor, we need self control in everything.
- Some events can only be won as a team, like the historic men’s 4X100 relay. For us, winning heaven is a team event!
- The glory of getting medals at the podium will fade for Olympians, but for us, the rewards are forever.
- Unlike divers and gymnasts, we can never hope for a perfect dive or routine. But Christ finished his earthly life perfectly, and He credits his perfect score to us.
- For the best Olympians, the goal is to become greater and greater. For us, the goal is to decrease so that we can enjoy watching Christ increase, until his glory fills the whole earth.
Pastoral note: Here’s another one of our regular guy bloggers – Tim Ashford:
“Unveiling grace.” Kind of takes your breath away, like standing at the altar, about to see your bride. I remember CJ saying recently though, that pointing out sin is a lot easier that unveiling grace. That was reassuring to me, since I’m obviously not alone in the battle. Speaking of my bride, she’s told me over the years that I need to grow in unveiling grace, although she would call it offering encouragement. Let me tell you one time it was so bad that it was humorous.
Susan and I had planned to talk about how homeschooling is going. It was maybe four months into the school year. She comes to the table all prepared, giving thoughtful details on each subject, and insight into the progress of the kids. So, did I jump at the opportunity to lavish her with thanks for her regular sacrifices? Did I highlight the many examples right from our conversation where God was active in her care and perseverance? Nope. I got right down to the important task of quality control. I mentioned an area of concern for the future. It wasn’t anything that she currently struggled with; at least that I could see. But I just felt the need to make sure she was not resting on her laurels – that she needed to be on her toes in this important family business.
What was her reaction? Well, it was like Charlie Brown when he misses the ball for the 11th time. His head just droops. She actually went into another room, put her head against the wall, and cried. There’s a picture for you. Now, Susan is amazingly gracious, so much so that we were laughing about it within a half hour, and have ever since. But it was just one more thing to make me aware of the vital need of encouragement for a wife and mother. Anybody can point to problems – as her husband I’m in the most strategic place to point out grace.
Here’s one thing I’ve tried lately: Take notes. I created a simple area on my computer where I write stuff down when it is fresh. As soon as I see a specific example of where God is active in her life, I can go there and write it down. Then I can take these thoughts home with me and share them with her. Once, I came to her after she’d had a rough day when she was less aware of God and his grace, and I took what I had written down up to that point, and recounted each example. This time she responded more like Snoopy doing a jig than Charlie Brown. Now what I need to do is keep my list up to date, and keep the examples coming her way. The more I think about it, the more I realize that there is so much grace in my wife to unveil. And I’m just the man to do it.
